To Men: Lesbians are NOT Sluts!

Many men have voiced out their disdain for the LGBT community. I’ve already made a post about the reasons why they are against it. Not all men are like that, but there are many who are against it, excluding those that follow a belief system (because it’s a matter of their faith, rather than personal understanding). Regardless, one thing that I despise about these men is that they think most of us are sluts.

Yes, because holding each other is an immediate sign of a relationship.

When men think of lesbian, they often think of female-female relationships. That’s normal and correct. Lesbians are women who prefer the company of other women. What puzzles me is why on earth is one of the most common depictions of us are two scantily dressed women, kissing each other on the bed? For fuck’s sake, we’re not pleasure material for your wankers. We’re people. Yes, we do have sex from time to time. But that doesn’t fucking mean we do it like ten times a day like ecstatic rabbits during mating season!

Fucking stop that! We’re not all like this! Yes, there are nymphos out there, but this is not how most lesbians are! This is just your “fap” material!

I seriously hate how many men automatically think of sex, when they hear the word “lesbian”. Stop thinking us as creatures with an enormous sexual appetite. We’re just like any other couple, but of the same sex. We talk, we go out, we watch movies, hell, we even argue about things that we don’t agree on – be it serious or mundane.

I don’t want to use my girlfriend as an example, but there was a period when we refused to speak to each other, because of a disagreement concerning about trash. She wanted to throw this old Walkman, but I wanted to keep it for nostalgic reasons (even if it didn’t work).

You think we look weird or crazy? Name one time you haven’t acted like this with another person!

To most men, please top automatically thinking that we’re from Sodom or Gomorrah. Yes, there were lesbians and gays in that city, but there were also a number of heterosexual couples as well. The difference being that those two cities were all sex-crazed maniacs and were willing to sleep with just about anyone, or anything.

Lesbians are human beings, people. We’re no different from regular couples, but just happen to enjoy the company of our own sex more. If those are really your thoughts, please just keep them in your head and your rods in your pants, or some place where no one knows.

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I don’t often curse, but I feel that I needed to here.